Tyinder horror stories
In the recent digital age, Tyinder is one of the most popular dating applications. It is relatively easy to go on Tyinder. With how famous Tyinder is, you can interact with hundreds and even thousands of people.
While they may bring funny and heartwarming outcomes, Tyinder can also cause negative and heart-wrenching scenarios. Here are some of them.
FIND REAL LOVE
Finding real love on Tyinder or similar dating apps seem like folklores and mythical legends. You might have heard of them in stories, but you do not necessarily believe that they are real. Since most people assume that dating sites are just for casual relationships or hooking up, they also think that the chance of getting a serious relationship there is nonexistent.
But surprise! It exists. While some friends do not get the digital fairy tale ending of getting a serious relationship out of applications like Tinder, there are still friends who manage to snag a boyfriend or girlfriend from the application. There are even some people who end up marrying their Tinder significant others.
Sometimes, you meet the right person at the right time. If you jive well with the person you are messaging, the occasional flirting can blossom into something more serious. It can lead to offline meet-ups and can become a real relationship. If both you and your partner are particularly romantic, you might even consider each other for your future.
MAKE A NEW FRIEND
Surprisingly, there are high chances of getting a new friend. This is one of the positive Tinder possibilities that you can make a new friend. You might be looking for something more than friendship. However, it is still nice to get a friend or two. This is especially true when those friendships become long-term ones.
You might have started out flirting. You might have thought that there was a real connection between you and your match. You love the same topics, and you are both on the same wavelength. You talk for hours on end.
Here you are, thinking that it might get serious. And it does – it becomes a real and serious friendship between both of you. If the two of you eventually just decide that you are better off as friends, becoming friends is never a bad thing. Even though it never evolved into something more, you still got a friend who shares the same hobbies and interests that you have.
BE GHOSTED
This sounds like the start of a ghost story – and it is. One of the negative outcomes you can get from Tinder is being ghosted. While it might hurt for your match to say that they do not want to talk to you anymore, you deserve to get one last farewell.
But sometimes, people on Tyinder choose to ghost instead. Without saying anything, they will end up leaving your messages delivered. They do not block you, but they also do not care enough to respond to you. While it is fine if you do not feel your match, it can be hurtful to both your ego and your emotional health if you are already invested. You might have been expecting something more, but the person on the other side has already left you.
Ghosting is a terrible culture – and it is made even worse with dating applications like Tinder. Since the chances of meeting your match in real life are slim unless you both choose to meet up, it is easier for one to leave another hanging. If you do not want to talk with your match anymore, that is fine. Just give them a heads up or two – especially when the two of you have been getting along well for the past few chats.
GET MALWARE
You go on Tyinder to get a match, not a virus. But sometimes, some people go on the application just to send out malware and spam links. It is hard to determine which individuals are more likely to do this, but you should know how to protect yourself from this scenario.
When you get close to your match, you are more likely to agree to what they say. If they share pictures, videos, or links, you might think it is alright to open them. If you trust your match, you will not have second thoughts.
But even though your match seems like a good person, they might be a malicious prankster in disguise. If they send you a link, think twice about opening them. While the majority might have good intentions, there are still people who are just waiting for someone to get scammed.